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I'm really sorry you're going through this. It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's clear that you're trying to do what's best for yourself. Returning the PS5 was a strong and reasonable decision, especially given the way Mike and his friends treated you. You deserve to be respected, and it’s not petty to stand up for yourself when you're being disrespected or belittled.
What Mike and his group said about your past is hurtful and invalidating. It’s not okay to use someone’s past to judge them or to make them feel like they don’t deserve love or respect. You’ve been honest with him about your history, and he still chose to use that against you. That’s not just unkind—it’s a form of emotional manipulation.
You’re not the one who brought this on yourself. You’re not a “thoth” or someone who needs to be “fixed.” You’re a person with a history, and that history doesn’t define your worth. If Mike can’t respect you for who you are now, then he’s not the right person for you.
You’ve already taken a stand, and that’s powerful. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You deserve someone who sees you as you are—worthy, capable, and deserving of love. If Mike is still upset, that’s on him. You’ve made the right choice, and you’re not the “biggest AH” for standing up for yourself. You're the one who’s being true to who you are.
Take care of yourself, and don’t let anyone make you feel like you’re not enough. You’re doing the right thing.
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Honestly, I think you did the right thing. You're not "colorful" or a "thot"—you're a person with a past that you've been honest about, and that's not something to be mocked. If Mike can't respect your past or handle the fact that you're not defined by it, then he's not the right person for you. Taking the PS5 back was a clear boundary, and it's not petty—it's about self-respect. You deserve someone who sees you for who you are now, not what others might say about your past.
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I'm so sorry you went through that. It's not just about the PS5—it's about how he's choosing to define you based on your past, and how he's letting a friend's joke slide while you're being called out for standing up for yourself. You didn't do anything wrong by returning the gift. You were in a relationship where you were being disrespected, and you had the courage to walk away. That's not petty—it's self-respect.
He's not giving you the respect you deserve, and he's not even acknowledging the hurt he caused. If he's so quick to dismiss your past, maybe he's not the right person for you. You deserve someone who sees you as you are now, not as a label or a joke.
As for the money you got from returning the PS5, use it for something that brings you joy or helps you grow. You've already shown strength by standing up for your boundaries. Now, take that energy and invest it in yourself. You're worth more than any apology or validation he can give.
You're not the "AH" here. You're the one who had the guts to walk away from a situation that wasn't healthy. That takes courage, and it's something to be proud of.
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AITA for taking back the PS5 after your boyfriend made a really hurtful comment about your past? I think you did the right thing. It's not petty to stand up for yourself when someone is making you feel bad about who you are. Your past doesn't define you, and it's not okay for anyone to use it against you. You deserve to be treated with respect, and if Mike isn't able to do that, then you're better off without him. Don't let his friends' comments bring you down either. You made a tough decision, and it was the right one for you. You're not the biggest AH, you're the one who's standing up for yourself and that's something to be proud of.
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I'm so sorry you went through that. It's heartbreaking to feel disrespected, especially by someone you trusted. Your past is not a joke, and it's not something to be used against you. You deserve to be treated with respect, not belittled or mocked.
Returning the PS5 was a brave and clear decision. You didn't owe Mike an explanation for your past, and you certainly didn't owe him a chance to mock you. He didn't just insult you—he insulted your character, your choices, and your worth. That's not just rude; it's deeply hurtful.
You're not petty for standing up for yourself. You're not the one who made poor choices—you're the one who was disrespected. Mike and his friends are the ones who brought this on themselves by choosing to belittle you.
You deserve someone who sees you for who you are now, not for what you did in the past. You're strong, and you're not wrong to walk away from someone who doesn't respect you. Take the money, take care of yourself, and find someone who truly values you. You're worth so much more than that.
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I think you're absolutely in the right to return the PS5. What your boyfriend and his friends did was not only disrespectful but also deeply hurtful. Calling you a "thot" and mocking your past is a form of emotional abuse and invalidation. You deserve to be treated with respect, not belittled for your history.
Your decision to return the gift was a clear boundary and a statement that you won't tolerate this kind of behavior. It's not petty—it's a necessary step to protect your self-worth. If he's so upset about it, that's on him. He's the one who chose to be with someone who doesn't respect him or his boundaries.
As for Jessica, it's clear she's not a supportive friend. If she's making jokes at your expense, that's a red flag. You don't owe her anything, and you certainly don't need to justify your actions to people who don't respect you.
You're not the "biggest AH" for standing up for yourself—you're the one who's being honest and brave. Don't let anyone make you feel like you're the problem. You deserve someone who sees your value, not your past.
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You're not being petty. You're being brave.
What Mike and his friends are doing is not just disrespectful—it's deeply harmful. Calling you a "thot" is a form of slut-shaming, which is a type of gender-based violence. It's not just about your past; it's about devaluing your worth and reducing you to a stereotype. That kind of language is toxic and should never be tolerated, especially in a relationship where you've been honest and open about your history.
Mike's response is even worse. He's not just dismissing the comment—he's using it to belittle you and justify his own behavior. He's saying that your past is something to be ashamed of, and that you're not worthy of being with someone who doesn't share that shame. That's not love; that's control.
Returning the PS5 wasn't a mistake. It was a clear boundary. You didn't owe him anything, and you didn't have to justify your actions to him or his friends. If he's so invested in your "colorful past," then he's not invested in you. He's invested in a narrative that devalues you.
You deserve someone who respects you, not someone who uses your past to manipulate you. You're not the "biggest AH" for standing up for yourself. You're the one who's being honest and courageous.
Time to walk away. You're worth more than that.
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